Jump in “Head” First at Meal-time
I hope you enjoy Starting from Scratch, my second book, published each week online, one chapter at a time. Before the book’s final publication, I hope to sprinkle readers’ thoughts, opinions and advice throughout. After all, you each have helpful systems and solutions in the kitchen worth sharing. In addition, for each section, I’m food bloggers and culinary experts – for this excerpt, it’s Alex and Sonja Overhiser, authors of A Couple Cooks.
I have this really odd habit of experimenting with new dishes and recipes when I have guests over for dinner. My spouse, Rob, thinks I am crazy to try something new without knowing what the outcome will be. And to his point……there was one time, I admit, when I got a little ahead of myself.
The great debate
I had always wanted to cook a whole salmon; maybe I saw too many fish tosses at Pike Market when I lived in Seattle. The underlying debate: Does a whole salmon taste better than salmon filets or steaks?
I needed a special occasion to unravel the mystery. After all, a family of three can’t eat a 12 pound fish in a day or two.
Testing the theory
When Rob’s parents were visiting last summer, we decided to host a party in their honor. This proved to be the perfect occasion to test the whole salmon theory. I ordered a ten pound fish from my beloved fishmonger and picked it up the day of the party. When I saw the size of the box in which my fishy friend sat, I was a bit intimidated, to say the least.
Now what?
The fish shop, surprisingly, had few suggestions on how to grill a whole fish, so I researched the topic online. I didn’t really find anything too terribly informative except cooking time, which in retrospect, was critical.
I also wasn’t able to resolve was how to handle the bones. Though I had been hoping my little fishy would arrive from the market conveniently de-boned, it did not. I decided not to worry about the whole cooking/de-boning debacle until party time approached.
Prep and de-head
Scarily, when I pulled that little monster out of its box to stuff and grill it, it was bigger than I had originally thought. Too big, in fact, to fit on my grill. So after filling her belly with lemon and pretty much every other herb I was growing in my garden, along with salt and pepper, I pulled out my trusted chef’s knife, sharpened it and prepared to chop off the fish’s head. Fortunately, my mother-in-law helped hold the fish while I was chopping; otherwise, the slippery, slithery creature might have found its way from atop the counter to the floor beneath.
It took a fair bit of brute strength to slice through its sturdy neck bones, so now I understand why there are special knives to fillet, skin and debone a fish. (Full disclosure: I have never caught a fish in my life, so all of this was new to me).
Party time
Maybe it was beginner’s luck; but the salmon turned out splendidly. After grilling it (for about 30 minutes), I let it rest for 10-15 minutes off the heat. The bones were quite effortless to detach and I was able to slice pieces according to everyone’s preference in doneness (leaving the rawest part for yours truly and other sushi lovers).
The verdict
The meal was huge success, and the whole fish was definitely more moist and delicious than fish fillets. No comparison, in fact.
The lesson
Though you may not want to behead a whole fish in front of guests, family or anyone else, for that matter, sometimes you may be faced with challenges you’re not really sure how to tackle. But as Sonja and Alex suggest, “To succeed in the kitchen, you’ll have to tackle fear of failure head on. And you may surprise yourself at the new things you have the ability to do! The only way we’ve learned what we have in the kitchen is by taking risks and going for it!”
Cookbooks, online tutorials and videos are a great way to learn techniques such as butterflying a chicken (to make this fabulous herb and ricotta stuffed chicken) or trimming a beef tenderloin (see below). Adventures such as these can often save you money while yielding huge dividends in flavor and tenderness.
Ultimately, you can’t always know what you are doing before you do it. In these times, you have to pull out the big knife, or other utensil, and go for it. And even if you have to chop a head off or tear some grizzly meat in the process, you will probably learn something new in the process. Are you ready to embark on unchartered territory?
Trimming a tenderloin
If you want to save a lot of money without sacrificing a dime of flavor, buy a beef tenderloin and filet it yourself. I usually get mine at Costco, because they have a nice selection of fresh beef. I start by removing any shiny, silvery membranes, or attempting to do so (it’s no more appetizing than it sounds, unfortunately). After removing any other thick fat clusters, I chop the meat into 2-3” blocks like they sell in butcher shops. I also remove any oblong shapes (which, by the pros, is deemed as muscle) and save them for fondue or Philly cheese steak sandwiches. Then I use my food sealer to keep the steaks as fresh as possible in the freezer till we are ready to eat them.
About Alex and Sonja
Alex and Sonja Overhiser are on a journey to eat better and master the art of cooking. They share while they learn via their blog, A Couple Cooks.
Their cooking journey began when they bought a house and needed something to feed dinner guests. They immersed themselves by perusing DVDs from Julia Child to Alton Brown, hundreds of library-loaned cookbooks, and numerous food blogs. In addition, they were inspired by Michael Pollan’s mantra “Eat real food, not too much, mostly plants” and Mark Bittman’s book Food Matters.
Cutting out almost all processed and prepackaged food from grocery trips, Alex and Sonja prefer to make most things from scratch. They believe that everyone can cook, and that preparing natural, whole foods can be accessible and fun!














Melinda Hinson Neely runs a business, runs a household and still manages to run marathons. She has consulted with many clients in the health and wellness industry, and more importantly, has stayed healthy and happy while juggling meetings, relocations, business trips, marriage and children.