Have you ever noticed how small gestures can make a big difference? Or maybe it’s unexpected actions or words that trigger a domino effect of positiveness.

I don’t believe these gestures are accidents, and in fact, they can shape us in ways that have a lasting impact.

I was reminded of this phenomenon when I read Rajeesh Setty’s “Give a Thoughtful Gift: Extend the Canvas.” In the article, he recommends that we think about people who have extended our life canvas, or made a significant impact. He also urges that we do the same for others.

I often get caught up in asking for favors, rather than reflecting on what others have done for me. So as I embrace the exciting challenges of the new year, I’m going to pause and write a thank you note to friends who extended my canvas my 2011 (listed in chronological order).

Raj, for continuing to inspire me with articles such as the one I reference here. Your words of advice over the years continue to stay with me. I also appreciate the invitation to Cerebrate last January, to meet a group of people whose thinking had a profound impact on mine.

Todd, for making yet another referral on my behalf. After a harsh marketing draught during the peak of the recession, this particular opportunity yielded much needed income! More importantly, I got to work with a wonderful group of people, and for that I am most appreciative. Best wishes for many sunny days ahead in your new home town.

Mia and Nancy, for helping remove a huge monkey off my back (at least one of them)! Your smarts, go get ‘em attitude and will to win are most admirable. Nancy called me last January to tell me she was thinking of me – now that was an unexpected gesture that meant a lot and made a huge difference in our lives!

Jim, aka “the King,” who has been a dear friend since our days in the ‘Burg. Sometimes misery loves company, but misery also loves laughter. And every time we talk, I hang up with a huge smile on my face and a much-needed adjustment to my perspective on hardship. Here’s to great fortune in 2012.

Jodi, for meeting me at mile 18 of the City of Trees Marathon. You may have only joined me for two miles, but it was the two toughest ones on the course. What a sight for sore eyes and weary legs! Sometimes it’s all about the timing.

Pascal, for generously helping me with a number of odd requests. No matter how many times I ask (and this year, I wore out my welcome!), you always listen and offer helpful advice. No matter how busy you are. Thank you.

Mom, for continuing to support my writing habit over the years. And this year in particular, you proofread countless words I’d written. You say you aren’t patient, but you sure demonstrated some stamina!

My new friends of Booktrope, for your interest in publishing Eat In, Not Out at the 11^th hour. I can already tell how much I will enjoy working with you, and I look forward to sharing success in the future. (And wouldn’t you know that Pascal introduced me to this company?)

Rob, for believing in me in as I stubbornly refuse to give up on writing books. It’s a lot of time and effort that sometimes feels – and often looks like – a futile effort. But your note on Christmas day, and your faith in me, mean so much.

And Luke, whose small and seemingly insignificant gestures brighten each and every day of my life. And who reminds me that these small joys are what makes life worth living.

Who extended your canvas last year?

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